back to school

I'm back. After a small hiatus this summer, school is back in and I have my computer to myself again. I made a decision to start doing before and after school care for 3 other girls, and took them more or less full time during the month of August, so I got a chance to see how it's going to play out. So far, so great, I have to say. Interestingly, all three girls are only children. They all get along well with my girls, and we had little to no conflicts all month. Now that school is back in, they are only together for a brief period of time before and after school, so hopefully it will continue to be a success for everyone. I have to say that the most exciting development to come out of this so far has been how well Kate has responded to the new situation. She is just a totally different child in the mornings now, and after school too. Where previously she was always very stressed, anxious and aggressive before school, now she is happy, organized, engaged with the other kids. After school she used to have a break down as soon as she got in the car, and it would continue for most if not all of the evening. So far this year she has not only kept it together but has drastically improved her coping skills when tired or bored. The key to this success seems to be her relationship with one of the girls in particular. I have known J since she was in grade 1, when she was in my Sparks (Girl Guides) group with Elizabeth, who was in kindergarten at the time. She is probably the quietest child I have ever known up till now. But that has changed too - she is definitely not quiet in my house! Anyway, she and Kate hit it off, and seem to really click. From what J's mum has told me, J is also very happy, so I am really really hoping that this continues. For both of them! For all of us!!